THE FIRST SECRET – Freedom is found in your relationship with God.
Most people are afraid to talk about God these days. They are afraid that they might offend someone. When I first started talking about being a life coach I debated on whether I to talk about God in my blogs and posts on Social Media.
In the end, I realized that it is my relationship with God that is the most important thing in my life. When I lost both of my husbands to death at an early age in my life I could not have made it without my dependence on God and understanding that He had me. He knew what was happening and He was there carrying me and helping me to learn to lean into Him and his plan for my life.
Look at all the people who are looking are out there looking for some meaning in money or work. They get what they want. They become millionaires. They have the career of their dream and when they get there they find they are still not happy.
Why aren’t they happy? Because life is not about the physical world. It is about the spiritual world. It is about the inner relationship that we have with God and with ourselves and the connection we get with the people around us. We can get everything we want in the physical world by following the rules of the universe, but when we get there it is not going to bring the happiness that we thought.
The only way to be truly happy is to become the inner spiritual person in our relationship with God. That relationship is going to be more fulfilling and more joyous and bring more happiness than anything this physical world is all about.
The spiritual world will stop striving and resistance. It will open up doors that we never dreamed could happen and will allow us the opportunity to live life in a way that we really want. Ultimately we are all looking for the spiritual side of life to fill the whole that our Souls are craving to find.
I love this passage from Nehemiah 9: 16 – 19. It reminds us that we can put our focus on the physical world and get distracted, but God is still there waiting to forgive us and show us mercy. All we have to do is return.
Nehemiah 9:15-21 The Good News
15 “When they were hungry, you gave them bread from heaven, and water from a rock when they were thirsty. You told them to take control of the land which you had promised to give them.
16 But our ancestors grew proud and stubborn and refused to obey your commands.
17 They refused to obey; they forgot all you did; they forgot the miracles you had performed.
In their pride, they chose a leader to take them back to slavery in Egypt. But you are a God who forgives; you are gracious and loving, slow to be angry. Your mercy is great; you did not forsake them. 18 They made an idol in the shape of a bull-calf and said it was the god who led them from Egypt! How much they insulted you, LORD! 19 But you did not abandon them there in the desert, for your mercy is great. You did not take away the cloud or the fire that showed them the path by day and night. 20In your goodness you told them what they should do, you fed them manna and gave them water to drink. 21Through forty years in the desert you provided all that they needed; their clothing never wore out, and their feet were not swollen with pain.
THE SECOND SECRET – Unconditional Love and Non-judgement are the highest Vibrations we can put out into the universe.
Life is about the experience. The reason 98% of the world is stuck in misery and unhappiness and struggling to get by day to day is that they are living life at a low vibration. The secret to life is practicing high vibrations that allow ourselves the opportunity to DREAM BIG. The only way to do that is to allow the judgment of life to become a thing of the past.
Stop judging the people around you. Stop judging the government. Stop judging money. Stop judging yourself. For goodness sakes stop all the criticism, all the negative things that are going on inside your head, because of the influence that is going on around you.
Turn off that darn TV and media that is trying to influence your thinking and start thinking for yourself. You have some original thoughts that are great. But you have to change your mind. You have to deliberately spend time Mediating on what is good.
Philippians 4:8 – Therefore, my brethren, those things that are true, those that are honorable, those that are righteous, those things that are pure, those things that are precious, those things that are praiseworthy, deeds of glory and of praise, meditate on these things. – Aramaic Bible in Plain English
There is nothing as powerful as a changed mind. – TD Jakes
Romans 12:2 – And do not imitate this world, but be transformed by the renovation of your minds, and you shall distinguish what is the good, acceptable and perfect will of God. – Aramaic Bible in Plain English
When we embrace the power of a changed mind we can become whoever we think we want to be. We can dream big. Those dreams are coming from within us and when they come from within us the power to accomplish them is unlimited.
When our thoughts, our feelings, and our action join together. No one can keep you from fulfilling your destiny. You are an unlimited being living in a physical world that is produced as you think and act. So the renewing of our minds from the things this world has us focusing on to the things of God and His ways is unstoppable. Change your thoughts, Change your life.
THE THIRD SECRET – Forgiveness automatically moves us to new levels in life.
This is something that most people do not understand. We get so caught up in how other people treat us or even how we treat ourselves that we never move from that fear, doubt, and overwhelm. This is striving and resistance and our natural world does not accept this and allow us to progress in life.
The quickest way to change our lives and begin to trust ourselves is forgiveness. It moves our brains to another level. This has been proven by science by hooking people’s brains up and looking at them as they are trying to forgive someone that hurt them. In that process, their brain was functioning at another level.
When we forgive the people and yourself you open yourself up to the next level. Forgiveness allows us to live our life on our terms. Not the terms that people have put on us. Unforgiveness is allowing the person that offended us to keep us stuck in that place.
If you want to make progress in life and really be able to do what is going to make you happy. Forgiveness has to be part of the process. I believe that when we forgive ourselves and others we are opening up a new piece of ourselves that has been stuck in fear and overwhelm.
I refer back to the verse about what to think about. It says nothing about focusing on the things that we perceive as having harmed us. We are to focus on the things that are praiseworthy. We are spiritual beings that need to grow and connect. When we hold something against someone we are judging them for what they did. We then become disconnected from the world and ourselves.
When we allow that judgment of them and ultimately of ourselves to be forgiven and learn from that thing that happened. Then we can move forward in unconditional love for ourselves and the people who harmed. Unconditional love is the highest vibration that you can put into the world to draw into us the people and things we want.
They may have not even known that they did something. They may have done it out of a hurt that was done to them. We just have to begin to open up and live in the forgiveness of God.
Jesus said on the cross – Forgive them for they know not what they do. Jesus is our example this Easter season. He is “the example” of how to live our lives. He followed his own path, which in turn created a new path for this world. He changed the world in profound ways that would leave it never the same. He does that in all our lives.
He gives us our own path to follow which will change the world.
Proverbs 3:5,6 – Hope in Lord Jehovah from your whole heart and do not trust upon the wisdom of your soul. Know him in all your ways and he straightens your paths.
We can live it in fear or faith. Faith that life can be better and deeper and stronger than we ever thought. I challenge you this Easter to open your hearts to unconditional love and forgiveness with God at the center of your life.
When we live life on God terms – We are living life beyond limits.
PS: If you are struggling in any of these areas I would love to help you move to the next level. Apply for my coaching program to become the BEST U. I have a limited number of spots, but I would love to see you discover your full potential.
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